It has been quite a while since we've chatted on here! I know everyone is busy - growing babies and training puppies - but, I finally have a life event to talk about!
As you all already know, we got engaged on our 10th anniversary!
It wasn't exactly a surprise, we designed the ring together. The process of creating my ring began at the beginning of April. We went to a shop in Gastown, Cavalier, which specializes in gemstones. I've never wanted a diamond ring. I've always leaned towards Emeralds or Sapphires, and Cavalier had a ton, along side other stone we had never considered. We were both really drawn to the green stones - Emerald, Green Sapphire and Tsavorite. And when we compared them all side by side the most vibrant was the Tsavorite (Green Garnet). So, it all started with a stone. After thinking a lot about what the finished ring would look like in the end, we made a design appointment at the beginning of June. It was a very simple and relaxing experience, and I'm so glad we got to do it together. When someone asks Corey about picking out the ring, he tells them, "We do everything else together, so it just felt right to do this together too."
So, I knew the ring was being made - we were told turnaround time was about 3 weeks, which would have pretty much been our anniversary exactly, July 8th. When Canada Day weekend rolled around I started to get curious, but Corey kept telling me had hadn't heard anything about the ring. He kept up that story all the next week.
Finally, it was the 8th, and after work we went for dinner at a new - booked a month in advance to get a table - italian restaurant, Savio Volpe. Our dinner was amazing, I highly recommend it! Then we headed home, and as soon as we parked Corey turned to me and said "Can you wait here, I'll text you in a couple minutes." So, I sat and waited in the car… for about 20 minutes! The whole time I knew what was about to happen, but I still got butterflies while I walked from the car to our apartment.
When I opened the door, the whole apartment was filled with candles - similar to what he had done for our first Valentine's Day in his parent's basement. Snow Patrol's "Run" was playing, and Corey was kneeling on a blanket laid out on the living room floor. I went over to him, knelt on the blanket with him, and he took my hands. He started telling me the highlights of the last ten years. Corey became so overwhelmed by emotion, he started crying, and had to pause to regain his composure. This caught me totally off guard, and I didn't shed a tear the entire time - which is extremely unlike me. Continuing on, he said "There have been 10 years, 4 homes, 3 cities, 2 people and, 1 love". Little did he know, I had written the exact same thing in a card on the table waiting to be opened. He told me he couldn't imagine living his life without me, and then said, "Will you marry me?" Of course I said "Yes!" - I mean it's been 10 years! When he put the ring on my finger it was more incredible than I could have ever imagined.
I love that he chose to propose in our home, the place we share our lives. Now, everyday I am reminded of that night. The only problem is, now we can never move!
Here are a few "engagement" photos. Yes, we took them ourselves - gotta love self timers!
For a close up of the ring you can check out Cavalier's Instagram post. They also asked us to share our proposal story so they could use it in one of their #LeftSideHeavy posts. So, I sent them the condensed version...
It was the evening of our ten year anniversary. I walked into our apartment, flooded with candlelight. I heard one of our songs playing, and I saw him kneeling. I walked over to him, he took my hands and began retelling the story of us. There was 10 years, 4 homes, 3 cities, 2 people and 1 love. He could barley get through the speech he had prepared, overcome with emotion as I had never seen him before. Then he said "Will you marry me" I said "Yes" and a new chapter of our lives began.
We haven't spent much time on wedding planning yet, although Corey has taken the lead already. It's actually quite funny - he requested a white board for planning purposes. It will be a very small wedding, only immediate family and our closest friends - about 30 people. No wedding party, no hall, very little tradition. Just a day where we can celebrate our relationship with the people who mean the most to us.
Sending love.
Xo, A
